Hey scooby.....NOBODY remembers who finished 2nd.....or 3rd....or 4th.......
Your philosophy reminds me of "most" women's attitudes towards sports.....most just aren't competitive.
Imo, you play a sport to WIN....period......otherwise they wouldn't keep score.
scooby, are you female? Btw, we do want to hear more from you. You are certainly welcomed to the forum.