Hey!
Now you are making fun of where I grew up? Its bad but not that bad.
I think we are actually in agreement but are getting words mixed up. I agree that having a coach that helps mold young men into good people is a plus. I do know that at this level of football coaches are paid millions to win. If they mold young men also that is a bonus. If they mold young men and lose then they get fired and end up in Div. III.
I may have been a bit over the top in my words but my exact quote was -
"If kids get all the way to college and still need ample molding from a coach then parents have failed. "
The key word is ample. Of course many kids come to college from great homes and behave and act like adults. Others do not. Our favorite school is a great school but it is not quite at the level of Duke and Yale etc academically. We do have players in various sports that attend class and maybe are not the best students or come from broken homes and are at UGA only because they can run a 4.4 40 or have a 42 inch vertical leap. All kids are different. Some need more guidance than others. In my opinion, if a kid makes it to 18 and becomes a legal adult and still has no repect for authority or does not know right from wrong then the environment that kid grew up in failed him.
Personal responsibilty should not be dying in this country but it is. Take for example Odell Thurman of the Cincinnati Bengals and the Ohio penal system. How many times has this young man been arrest in his short career? 2? 3? My gut tells me that he did not have a ton of guidance growing up. I know his parents both died and he was raised by his grandmother. It is a very sad story, but at UGA and Georgia Military Academy he also had trouble adhering to team rules. Of course in the NFL he is suspended for a year already.
Thurman is a perfect example of the type of kid I am referring to. He evidently lacked guidance growing up and therefore he lacks discipline. Coach Richt kicked him off the team once too. The molding of Coach Richt did not seem to help. Sports are full of examples like this. It is a fact of life. Not ever kid is raised in a perfect environment where the adults care for them and raise them will guidance and love.